We at MLM love the writings and encouragements and the wisdom that comes from our blogger friend, J over at Hot, Holy and Humorous. She has graciously agreed to guest post for us. In addition, she has made available to our readers one free copy of her new e-book Sex Savvy: A Lovemaking Guide for Christian Wives (which I would highly recommend). Simply leave a comment below in order to win!
Many spouses have an unfavorable view of sex. Perhaps they absorbed negative messages in their childhood, experienced sexual pain in their past, or endured marital infidelity. Whatever the cause, when they consider having sex or begin to engage, their brains run through adverse internal messages, like memorized lines from a script, that prevent them from fully engaging and enjoying sexual intimacy in their marriage.
So how can you change the way you feel about sex with your spouse? How can you rewrite that script?
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